As I said "the Mirror Rule" will challenge you to be honest not only with others but more importantly with yourselves. I am a firm believer in the old adage" The truth shall set you free". No one can solve a problem if they aren't honest about it. I encourage you to be vigilant about your own conduct. First and foremost examine your thoughts and behavior honestly. Are you being the best you can be? Are you blaming others for your faults? Are you acting out because of unresolved guilt, anger and a lack of inner peace? Many times I have been met with amazed looks when I remind people that this life is not a dress rehersal. It's the only one you get. Promise yourself  therefore, that you will never let anything deny you a happy life. Anything less is a denial of who you really are as set forth in "A Course in Miracles". The course teaches that we are all cells in the body of Christ. As such we share His divinity and the will of our Creator to be happy. It's up to us.